ok - when i first heard beyonce's new song...i was totally weirded out. what the was she even talking about?? but then today on my commute home i heard it again. twice. and ended up loving it. and then i came home to find myself watching the video. twice. so maybe a little bit of my bitter side emerged today, and that is why it clicked. or maybe its just a really catchy tune. regardless, give it a chance....if i were a boy.